How to Send a Friend Request on Facebook

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Want to connect with someone on Facebook? Sending a Facebook friend request is easy—you'll just need to visit the person's profile and click the Add Friend button! Once your new friend accepts your request, you'll be able to see each other's posts, exchange messages, and more. This wikiHow article walks you through the process of sending friend requests on Facebook using your computer, Android, iPhone, or iPad. We'll also show you what to do if you don't see the "Add Friend" option on somebody's profile.

How to Request a Friend on Facebook

Search for the profile of the person or page you want to add, then click “Add Friend.” If you don’t see the Add Friend option, they may not be accepting friend requests, or you may have already sent a request that wasn’t accepted.

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Tap the magnifying glass at the top of the screen, then type someone’s name, email address, or phone number into the search field to search for them.
Tap a person's name in a comment or post to open their profile page.
Tap the ☰ icon at the bottom right of the screen (iOS) or in the top right corner (Android), and then tap "Friends." From there, you can see your list of current Friends or click "Suggestions," "Contacts" or "Search" to find other people you may know.
Open your friends' friend lists and tap someone's name to see their profile.

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If you don’t see the Add Friend button, the person you are trying to add does not accept friend requests from people with whom they have no mutual friends.
If you change your mind about a friend request you’ve already sent, you can cancel it by opening that person’s Facebook profile and tapping Cancel Request.

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If prompted, enter the email address (or phone number) and password you use to sign into Facebook into the blanks at the top right corner of the screen, then click Log In.

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Click someone's name in a comment or post to open their profile.
Use the search bar at the top of the screen to search by name, email address, or phone number.
Click Friends in the left panel, and then click Suggestions to see a list of people you may know.
Browse one of your friends’ friends lists by clicking the “Friends” tab at the top center of the screen. Click any of your friends’ friends to view their profile.

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To cancel a friend request you’ve sent, go to https://www.facebook.com/find-friends, click “View Sent Requests” and then click Delete or Delete Request next to the person’s name. [3] X Research source

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Why the "Add Friend" Option is Missing

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You may already have sent a friend request. You won't see the Add friend button if you've previously sent them a request and they haven't accepted it yet, even if you sent that request years ago.

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The person doesn't accept friend requests from users they don't know. If you don’t see the Add Friend button, the person you are trying to add might not accept friend requests from users with whom they have no mutual friends. You can instead message them that you want to be friends and they may or may not respond.

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You blocked that person. If someone is blocked, you won't see the Add Friend button, but you can unblock them.

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To avoid this block, send friend requests only to people you know, like family, classmates, coworkers, and friends. You also might be getting denied requests if your Facebook name isn't the name that people know you by. [4] X Research source

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You're at the friend limit or the person you're attempting to friend is at their limit. As of May 2022, the max friends that you can have is 5,000, so if you're at that number then you won't be able to add more friends.

Community Q&A

What should I do if a friend accidentally removed me from Facebook? Community Answer

If a friend accidentally removed you from Facebook, you can politely message your friend to ask why you were removed.

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I put the name in for friend request but it says they don't exist, what can I do? Community Answer

You'll need to find some other way to track them down on Facebook. try entering their email address or phone number into the search field. You can also try to find posts they've made or commented on.

How do I get friend requests on Facebook? Community Answer

You'll need to wait until people you know send you friend requests. You're more likely to get friend requests if you're active on your other friends' pages. This will make you more visible, increasing the chances that someone you know sees you and sends you a request.

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If you don’t know somebody personally, you may want to send them a message to introduce yourself before sending a friend request.

You can send messages to people who aren't your Facebook friends, but they will not appear in the normal inbox. Find these hidden messages by looking in your Message requests inbox instead.

If a person doesn’t accept your request, you will not receive any notification. However, when you visit their page, you’ll see a button that says “Friend Request Sent” instead of “Add Friend.”

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